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I have been reading about FLR and getting my husband ready for his up-coming training. He has no idea what he is in for. My first purchase was a pink onesie, the kind that babies wear except in an adult size. He is wearing it to bed as he does not like to sleep naked and the onesie makes it quicker to have sex in the middle of the night when I like it most. What he doesn't realize is that it will also give me quick access to his virgin asshole once the chastity device is installed. The pink color does not appeal to him but he wears it since no one else can see it.

My next two purchases were his chastity device and a strap on dildo. The chastity device is on its way and I can't wait to snap it on his tiny penis and to frustrate him no end. This will force him to sit when he pees, keeping our bathrooms cleaner. My little cuckold has been so receptive to these new suggestions. However, the training takes time so I am trying to be patient. I can't wait until my first date outside our marriage.
Cheryl

Next week it will be 9 months since we started cuckolding, well I should say since I got the courage to start cuckolding my husband. To say the truth I never thought I would be ready to move on to that but here we are. It will be 1 year 9 months since we started this journey and quite frankly, I never thought it was going to be as fun and exciting as it is. Not to say that we have not had some strugles but over all its been great. Any ways what I really wanted to share is that I finally made up my mind and although I don't really like tattoos, what other way to show my total dedication to black dick! yes, I did it! and with my husband's total blessing my Queen of Spades tattoo.
Amanda67

One of the leading questions I get is “how do you live your life as both male and female?” It’s actually quite easy. As a gender fluid, believing in both male and female, I switch back and forth to fit whatever role I need. I do have a feminine body, which shows, but it hasn’t stopped me from living life. My “boobs” if you want to call them that are so small they barely fit in a sports bra. My waist is smaller than the average guy, and my hips and ass are pretty much a match for a woman. Same with body hair management. I work in the criminal justice system, which makes it kind of hard to conceal my frame, with the uniform I wear. I work in a place where…let’s just say is a large fantasy of dropping the soap waiting to happen. I hear comments from some of them, and I don’t mind, but I do work out and am muscular enough to hold my own in case of an emergency. Being who I am and looking the way I do hasn’t stopped me from working a regular job. When I’m Ashley, or Christina, or any of the numerous names I’ve used in my extra curriculars, I wear a wig, as my normal head is a military buzz cut. I’m my male persona at work, and around some people, but 80% of my time outside of work, I’m Ashley.
Ashley

So here is Jake and I, two years now living this wonderful adventure. I remember when he first brought up the subject I got upset, I just didn't know why he would want to do such a thing. One day I don't even know why I took control in the bedroom and he got really hard. Sex was really good that night. After that I got a bit intrigued and started doing some research on the subject. Long story short I ordered a chastity without telling him anything. When it came home I waiting until we went to bed to give him the surprise. We played on and off with it for a few months before we agreed to a 60 day lock-down. It was a bit hard not only on him but on me as well. I really like the whole thing about him pleasing me orally and when I finally got around to go with him to an adult toy store, we purchased a strap on. I guess that was the point where I really got into it because I just loved seeing him cum so hard with anal stimulation alone. At first I had set my mind on never involving another man, I thought just him and I could have a great time with this new adventure. However as time went by, my mind begin to wonder and one day without even planning it, it happen. We were in Las Vegas and I met this sexy guy a little bit younger, after talking for a while I invited him to my room, we walked over to where my husband was playing and I tap my husband on the shoulder telling him " here meet my new friend Patrick" I said do you want to join us int he room, his eyes just stared at me in disbelieve. The whole thing was really exited and after Patrick left the next morning my Jake gave me the best oral he had ever given me. We cuddle in bed for a bit and later we flew back home. Now we go out at least once a month and if I meet the right guy we have fun, if not we wait until the next time. My advice for the newbies, don't rush it, don't think about it too much, you will know when you are ready. My personal advice, don't go out alone, not all guys are willing to respect boundaries.
Miriam G.

Almost 3 years in a female led relationship and I now feel ready for my first black cock experience. Talked to the bull 3 times and my hubby and I have gone out with him and I think he is the right one for this my first experience. Wish me luck.
QueenX

I had a very hard time and many doubts about the sissification process and so I continued with it in a very mild way. Only having him wearing panties and bras, toe nails done and hand nails manicured and totally shaved. We went on like this for about a year but the more I read the more I got encouraged to keep going so I step it up a little more and I got him on a workout program and here is the result after two years. We have been married for 4 1/2 years and in a FLR for two years and there is nothing more I can ask out of our relationship. We are now a level five for three months and life is more exciting then ever.

Melva T.

When Mark first brought the FLR idea I was in disbelieved I couldn't understand why would a man want that. I did my research and we started out as a play here and there, nothing permanent, it was more of a role play in the bedroom. After a year or so and after a lot of reading on my part I decided to get more serious and I ordered a chastity device for him. I have had him on it for 7 months now and I have only let him out 3 times for about 5 minutes. I am very proud of the changes that I have accomplished on him up to this point. Here my sissy ready to go out for the first time. We are still a level three but I feel ready to start level four, wish me luck. I truly love the changes that this life style has bring to my life and his. He is now more happy and I feel I love him more.

Abby

We were not married when we first started but we had been living together for about 8 months. Andrew who now goes by Andrea brought this up to me and I was really interested in the topic. After we read some sites together I was on board with the idea and I ordered him the spirolactone like a month into his chastity because he was having a hard time in the mornings with his boner and I would feel compeled to take it off until it whent down. Regardless of the negative things that many people say about this life style we are truly happy and we plan to get marry. Not every relationship is the same and you can't expect it to be so be patient and move according to what you thing is best for your relationship. Here is a before an after one year and two months into our new life. I just started level four and I have only been with my bull once I was super nervous but everything went smooth so I plan on going further into level five. Good luck to all you newbies.

Tatiana B.

Here is a before an after or Blake now Brenda. I think the hardest thing to deal with is when you have children. We been married for 7 years and we have a 5 year old boy and 3 year old girl. We started the life style soon after my 3 year old was born and as you can see on this before and after he has come a long way. Our children are okay with the change I guess because they were so little whey we started. His parents were first against it but are now okay to a degree. All of our friends were very supportive and that was a big deal for him. Our relationship is something beautiful and our love is pure. I stayed in level three for almost a year because I was hesitant about the whole thing of bringing another man into our sex lives but I am now glad I took that step because now my sex life is wonderful. Been a level five for 5 months and it has brought Brenda and I closer than I ever imagine possible.

Alice G

I just want to share this before and after picture of Jacky, formerly Jack. I can't believe four years have already gone by. I have to admit when we first started this I never thought it will get this far and that life could be so wonderful with a sissy husband/wife. We have been a level five for almost three years and I have a permanent bull. I had several bulls before I met Rick,I decided to keep him as a permanent bull since the chemistry was perfect and Jacky liked him a lot. We either see Rick at his place or he comes over to our home at least once a week but mostly two to three times a week unless life gets in the way. Our kids know Rick and to them he is just a good friend. My Jacky adores me and I love him very much. His oral skills have developed in an amazing way and he makes me have amazing orgasms. I released him from his chastity about a year ago because he no longer needs it as he no longer gets hard. I only put it on him when my bull comes home. My advice for any new comers that are having doubts, GO FOR IT, Who cares what other people say and think you will never keep everyone happy.

Margaret A.

Here is a before an after picture of James, now Alison. This after picture is the most recent, three years into our wonderful new life. I am now a proud level five for the past 7 months and finally found a permanent bull 3 months ago. I have to say that is not hard to find someone to fuck you good it is the other stuff that is hard, like your bull being smart and your sissy liking your bull and your bull liking your sissy. Before I met my current bull I had four other bulls that I saw for just a couple of times and one of them just once. I still have Alison in his chastity and I gave me key to my bull just two days ago when he fucked my sissy and brought him to an enormous orgasm. I know that there are a lot of things to consider when entering in the FLR life but if done correctly everything will work out. We live in an age where the transition of a may from male to female is more and more accepted. The difference in the FLR is that your sissy will stay with you for ever. I guess is your that you have to worry about and you have to be constantly checking yourself. You have to be as committed to your sissy as your sissy is committed to you. Your bull is just that, a bull to fuck you and your sissy and bring excitement to you both but you and your sissy are committed to each other. Clarissa H.