Anal Training & Prostate Milking

Why anal training?
Anal training serves several purposes which are not only essential for your success, his emotional well being but to his health as well. Anal Training can also be referred to as prostate milking although in our case will be called anal training because is more than just prostate milking. Anal training is a necessity if your male is locked up for a week or more otherwise his prostate can get clogged up and his chances of getting prostate cancer increased. Milking causes a release of semen clearing out the prostrate but provides none of the satisfaction of an orgasm. A male is usually even more frustrated after a milking than before because he has been stimulated similar to an orgasm but not allowed to have it. However over time he will relax and the feeling of frustration will disappear. Milking also helps to prevent nocturnal or spontaneous orgasms which can happen if he is locked up long enough without being milked or allowed to cum. You can look at prostate milking trough anal penetration or prostate stimulation as a necessary procedure. When anally penetrating your hubby you must not release him from his device or he may be tempted to stimulate his penis and all your hard work up to that time will be ruined. 

Using a strap-on and taking your man anally does not only achieves the goal of milking him but also puts him in a submissive role and as I said before it will promote his hormonal levels to an optimal level where his feelings of attachment and love are increased to a level similar to that of a female who has just had great sex with the man she loves.

How do I do it?
Go out and buy a strap-on dildo or get one online. Start out with something not too big and preferably something that is closes to a real penis in texture. You must make sure to buy lubricant as doing this without it can be extremely painful for him and hurt him in a negative way. Start out by arousing him in the ways you know how. Have him turn on his tummy with his ass up and kiss his back and buttocks area and gently slide your finder using a little bit of saliva or warm lubricant down to his anus. Gently rub your finder around, continue to kiss his buttocks or his back and gently slide the tip of your finger. Continue your play until you manage to slide in your whole finder and gently pull in and out.  You will know when the time is right to turn him around on his back, here is when you will slide your finger and with a gentle movement of your finger like indicating "come here" will begin to stimulate his prostate while you continue to go in and out. It may take some time and you may not be successful the first time, however he will get some pleasure out of it.  After a few days of this type of play you can introduce your dildo or strap-on. It is recommended that before you attempt to penetrate him you stimulate his anus with your finder as mentioned before. This will get him ready and relax his anus muscles. 
If you have ever had anal sex or still do and you enjoy it, think about what are the thinks you like, how you like it to be done to you. Likewise warm him up, do some foreplay to arouse him, playfully kiss his body, his inner thighs, his buttocks, tell him dirty things if you know he will enjoy that, etc. Remember how you like a man to get you turned on, do the same to him, bring him to the point where his excitement will relaxed his body and get him ready to take on your new friend. I don't know if you ever had an experience where a man tried anal with you and tried to go right for it without any foreplay or worse without adding some saliva, your vagina juice or lube, well if you haven't, that is painful as hell, I know because it happened to me and well, I ended up not doing it because the pain put me out of the mood. 

The stage of anal play is a favorite of many of the women I have talked with, and I have to agree it is a lot of fun to be in control in that way. This also sets the stage for part (b) of this level. They find it most amusing to orgasm themselves while forcing the semen to drool out of hubby’s chastity device with each in and out thrust. I give it a go every so often particularly when I want some penetration with a great arched doubled sided dildo that some clever woman designed. This is an essential part in the first three months of chastity so that he gets accustom to please you. I recommend to penetrate him and milk him every other day for the first 2 to 3 weeks and mix it up like two days in a role and off a day or two, the point is to keep him guessing. One think to keep in mind is that you must have him do an enema daily before going to bed. Tell him it is his duty to make sure he is clean in case you decide to fuck him.

There may be times where you feel you have to unlock him to use his penis. At this stage it is fine to do it but try to resist for the first 30 days and do not allow him to have a male orgasm. Here is how you do it, use a numbing creme and several condoms. This usually works but there is always a small risk that he will cum especially if he has been locked for a long time. There are other alternatives that allow penetration without this risk. The easiest and my recommended method is to have him put on a strap on with a dildo that you like and feel comfortable with. There are two models, the feel-doe and nexus that were designed by women that will give you great stimulation while allowing you to reach an orgasm. Every so often I and many of the women that I have talked to, want the real thing. To make these rare opportunity of intercourse work for both of you during this level, you need to recognize that after being locked up for a long time he will cum with a hair trigger. ​ He is also unlikely to get as large as he did before chastity unless you take him out of the tube and get him hard on a frequent basis. Long term chastity will have the effect of reducing the size of his erect penis.

You can avoid disappointment if you stimulate him to orgasm but only after his initial 3 months but in some way other than intercourse. After he cums give him a Viagra and wait an hour or so before you use him. It is good for about three hours or you can give him a Cialis if you want to do an all day thing. Once he has cum the first time and recovered by the time the erection drug takes effect, he will not orgasm nearly as easily and either of the two drugs will get and keep him really hard even if he has another orgasm. Some of the women use their hubbies for intercourse for several days in a row treating the whole event as a single release period before they lock him back up for a prolonged duration.This is part of the big changes that you as the female leader must make in yourself to make the chastity work in a FLR.  

Having him perform cunnalingus "oral" on you is a must and should be required from him as often as you demand. Just think the more sex you get without letting him cum the more he wants you. If more women knew this secret there would be a lot more locked up husbands and boyfriends. Remember you have all the time in the world to train him to do what you want without any need to worry about getting him off. Once locked all he does is fantasize about you. 

Slowly begin referring to his ass as his pussy or whatever name you make for it but Do Not say I am going to fuck  your ass. By doing this you are subliminally imprinting in his brain to take a submissive role, it will slowly eliminate any resistance of male pride. He will more willingly accept it as a role play until it becomes normal. Refer to his dick as his little clit. At first you may resist the idea but trust me this is needed to begin striping out his male pride.



The First Month: It is essential that you fuck him at least 4 times a week for the first month. You can always do more if you like.

The Second Month: On the second month change it up a little bit. You may fuck him two consecutive days and rest one day and fuck him tree days i a roll and rest two day. During the second month make it a priority to wake him up at least once a week to fuck him. Once he is sound as sleep, get ready with your strap on apply warm lube on it and slowly apply warm lube in his ass and begin doing your thing, if he resist grab him strongly by the hair, whisper on his ear to stop resisting or you will punish him, the point is to awake him and give him a sound reminder of who the boss is. 

The Third Month: This is a key month on your journey to becoming a leader in your relationship and breaking his male pride. Here is where you will begin announcing to him what you will do to him. You can text or call him and tell him to get his pussy ready because you will fuck him later Try to do it at least once a week. On the other hand you must also be spontaneous, if you are alone at home interrupt whatever you are doing and tell him to go to the room that you are horny and want to fuck his pussy. Also randomly make him lick your pussy at home or when you are both out. Make it a point that he is totally subject to your needs. 

It is also recommended that you tell him while you are fucking him that doing so turns you on. Feel free to do as you please with him while having sex. Spank him, pinch his nipples, pull his hair, anything you like, be creative. 

Essential Rules For Him:

  • He must ALWAYS eat any cum that he drips. This will get him use to the taste of sperm and will prepare him for the next stage.
  • It is not all about sex, he must ALWAYS show his devotion by doing what pleases you and foot and body massages as required. ​

Essential Rules For Her:
  • Do NOT forget that he continues to be your partner, the person you decided to share your life with.
  • ALWAYS show him you love him.
  • ALWAYS show him he is an important part of your life.
  • ALWAYS remember this is not a game but  a real life commitment.
  • He is not your slave although you may treat him like one at times, so balance the love and discipline.
  • Do NOT allow your new life to interfere with LIFE: Bills, Rent/Mortgage, Family, Friends, Children (if you have children), Work, Etc. 


Ready for part (b)? I hope so!