Level 3 part (b) Sissification
For better results it is highly recommended that Sissification begins during the second month of chastity. Many Ask, Why Make My Husband A Sissy? My answer is, why not. A true love is based, number one, on the affection and feelings for the inner person that we call "husband/wife". Usually but not always, although true love is when we love the person and not the physical attributes. For instance, in a conventional relationship a partner will still love his/her significant other regardless of physical appearances, "got too fat, too skinny, lost his/her hair, lost his/her teeth, lost a limp, etc". Whatever the change in physical appearance we continue to love our significant other because we have learned to love the "person" and not the "physical appearance". So in perspective, transforming your husband into a beautiful girl or if you don't wish to go all the way into a more feminine male should not change the love you have for him. This will only serve to bring you two closer together. You two will reach a level of closeness like never before. He will now become more of a best girlfriend with the benefits that you will never get from a best girlfriend. Remember that in this life-style your primary source of sexual pleasure will be through your bulls and not through your husband. He will only be there to serve you for emergency urges and only by giving you oral sex. Consider this, once you turn him into a sissy he will discover a state of mind and peace like never before and he will remain submissive to you. The Following are the steps that I experienced and learned to be Critical For Success. A little introduction Sissification takes its time. Don’t expect to have a sissy husband the next week after reading this. The process is a psychological battle that you have to and will win. However you must take it easy and one step at a time but at the end you will rip the rewards. Remember we are all different, some males will resist more, some will be more compliant without much resistance. I highly recommend that prior to starting this process you buy some testosterone blockers if you didn't already at the beginning stages of chastity. They work miracles on this phase. Testosterone blockers are just that, a blocker of the male hormone testosterone. Now I am not a medical doctor and my suggestion is in no way substitute for medical advice but giving this pill to your husband twice a day, morning and at night will make him more calm, less aggressive, will reduce his body hair growth, will make his skin a lot softer and will make him more in touch with his feminine side which is exactly what you want. The Testosterone blocker will help him greatly with his painful morning erections. If your husband is young between 18 and 35 or even 40 in some man, giving him a 100mg pill twice a day will in a matter of 2 or 3 days help him get a good night sleep without waking up in the middle of the night or early morning due to the painful erections. Painful morning erections can be a big deterrent from continuing with the chastity. Even after long chastity spontaneous erections can occur and the blockers will prevent this.
So what is a testosteron blocker? It is a medication called Spironolactone.
Spironolactone is known as a "water pill". The most recommended dosage is 100mg pills, they dissolve easy under the tongue or can be grinned to power and sprinkle over food or mist in a drink. You can get this online or you can make an appointment for your husband to see his doctor and ask him to prescribe spironolactone for his fluid retention or breathing problems at night or high blood pressure, etct. If you buy this online is up to you if you tell him about it or not. If you don't you can give it to him in his food. Just get a pill grinder and sprinkle the power on his food. I personally started this without telling him and after three months I told him I bought him something that will help him with his spontaneous morning erections so he would not have to endure the pain and he gladly accepted. He now takes it on his own. Once you see how wonderful the blockers work you will be glad you introduced it into his regimen. It is recommended that he does not miss any dosage. Hairless, but long hair Nowadays it is perfectly normal to ask your couple to shave his private area, legs, beard and even the arms. On the other hand it’s normal to see men with long hair. Tell him to shave any hair of his body and encourage him on letting his hair grow. If he is hairy like mine, you may want to start off slowly, maybe with his private part, moving on to his tights, legs, chest, etc, until you accomplish a totally hairless and smooth body. Explain to him that you prefer hairless men over hairy men but you think that men with long hair are sexy. You can even argue that this is more hygienic. This phase will be the beginning of a wonderful accomplishment. Whenever he is freshly shaved, compliment him on how soft and smooth he feels, tell him that you like that on him. Nails The best way to introduce this is to call him over and paint his toe nails. You can do this right after he shaves all his body or you can wait 4 to 7 days after when he shaves again. Tell him that now that he is all shaved his toes will look a lot better if they are painted. You can do this for him the first two or three times but he must learn to do it on his own. Tell him that he must keep his feet looking nice with his toe nails done. Tell him you better not find him with his toe nails not painted or you will have to punish him. Wait a few days but not too long, 30 days is the max before you tell him that his hands don't look good that they look too rough and that he has been so good that you are going to do something nice for him. Take him out for a manicure. Ask the girl working on him to apply a clear nail polish without even acknowledging him. After he is done complement him on how nice his hands look. Take him with you and buy him his own clear nail polish and tell him that from now on you want him to always keep his hands moist and with clear nail polish. Make sure you take him at least once a month to get a manicure. The panties No more than a month after he is totally shaved and his feet and hand nails done, go out a buy a couple of sexy panties and tell him you got him a present. He will get excited at first but his face may change once he sees his present. Tell him in a firm voice that you want him to try them out. After he fits them tell him from now on he must only wear girl panties. His first reaction will be to think that you are joking, but make it very clear that it is no joke. If you are in your room, right there in front of him get all his boy underwear and put them in a bag and tell him you are getting rid of them. Tell him you really like the way he looks in those panties. Don't leave room for discussion and END the conversation. Get rid of his boy underwear by placing them in the trash or hide them where he will never find them. I personally made him put them in the trash. As time goes by, surprise him and buy him some sexy panties or take him with you to buy them. Make him help pick out what he wants. The bra Wait at least a week but no more than 30 days before you get him a pair of sexy bras. Make sure they are not patted so they wont show under his boy clothes, because eventually he will wear a bra even when going to work. As with the panties come home with a surprise present for him. Tell him that since he is now looking more feminine and you really like that, you decided it will be a good idea to get him a pair of bras. Tell him he must wear a bra at all times when he is home. Tell him you expect him to put it on when he gets home and on his days off from work. If he is off on the weekends he must sleep with his bra on on Friday and must wear it all weekend. Put this date on your calendar because you will need to time it. Have him do this for at least two weeks, top 30 days, before you make it a rule that he is to wear his bra when going out of the house. Except when going to work. There is no bargaining on this rule. After another 30-60 days of implementing the rule of going out with a bra on his days off and on weekends make it a rule that he must wear his bra on a daily basis everywhere he goes. Tell him it will really please you and he looks better any ways. This is a good time to give him a girl name, have fun with it, ask him for his input, and once you decide on a name, begin calling him by that name when you are alone, especially when you are having your way with your strap-on. The nightgown or Sexy Lace Tell him you want to take him out to buy him a nice nightgown for him to sleep on. This will be his first experience with you shopping for his own girl garments. Ask for his input when selecting this item, I remember asking my husband what colors he preferred. I know is risky but try to have him go in the dressing room with you so he can try it on. Once you decide on which one you will get for him use this opportunity to go buy him more sexy panties and another bra. Make him participate on selecting the panties and bra. If the budge allows for, go out and get something to eat after you are done shopping. This will be an amazing experience but most importantly it will bring you closer to your goal. The makeup Introduce this as a play. This can be done concurrently with your implementation of the panties. This step should usually be introduced as early as possible in the sissification stage to get him comfortable with. If there are children in the home wait until they are sleeping or better yet for a day or time when they are not home or out with the grandparents or other family member. Start off by applying some make up on him. In my case I started out with clear lip gloss and clear mascara, a little foundation and so on. Tell him you just want to see how he will look. By this time most husbands won't resist but the few that do won't put up a big resistance because it will be something so minor and will mostly be in a form of play and fun. From this point on you should do this as often as possible. After introducing make up you must allow him to try and do his own make up. The best way to do this is to call him or text him when you are out and he is home and tell him that you want him to have his make up on by the time you get home and to be sexy for you because you plan on fucking him when you get home. This will not only get him excited sexually but he will get an amazing psychological rush that will put him one step closer to your goal Feminine Dressing It’s time for him to begin wearing more feminine clothing. Start out slowly with type of unisex outfits and slowly move on to, skirts, dresses, girl tops and heels. Have him wear these at home as often as possible and send him to get ready as must as possible when you plan on fucking him. Use the same techniques as on the previous phases. At this point he won’t resist. Remember to express your love to him when having sex. He has to feel that you love him more than ever. Make sure that he feels comfortable wearing women clothing. It may take months before you get to this level but once you find yourself here, make it clear that you really love him and that it pleases you to fuck him when he is made up like a good sissy. The more he does it the more comfortable he will become. Take any opportunity you can to ask him to get pretty for you. It will not always be an easy task for you or him since life may not always allow you two to have as much free time as you will like but do your best. This can be a lot of fun for the both of you. Now, if the idea of sissifying him, scares you or is unpleasant to you, all I can say is that you won't really know until you try it. If after doing so you still feel that you can't go on, the FLR is not for you. Think of it like this, if you wanted to play a sportl, you will be required to do certain things that come as part of that sport. Go to practices, do all of the exercises required during practice, like running, doing jumping jacks, etc. You may not like or enjoy certain parts of your practice exercises, however in order for you to stay in the game you will have to perform what is required from you. I will be honest, when I first read about sisification I was like "no way!" I will not do that, I will just skip that and go on. The reality skipping this part may work for some, but it will be like baking a cake and skipping the frosting; in my experience in talking to other females, for the most part you will never be able to strip him off of all his macho, male alpha bull shit. This part was key to my success, it may not be for you but it will for sure help you reach the ultimate goal. Going Out This is another one of the steps that may take a while to accomplish. I know it took me a long time to achieve. In my case we used to pretend that we were going to go out, and talk about it as we got ready and we will just go out to our back yard and have dinner, a glass of wine and talk for hours. This must be carefuly arranged in advance to avoid having unexpected visitors as it can be an awkward moment. As time pass and he is more and more use to his appearance you will know that he is ready Make it an adventure, a time to remember, and try to have fun. Do your research and find a couple of gay or gay-friendly bars or night clubs so that he does not feel under the microscope. Don't try anything close to home, go out to another city or better yet while on vacations. This may not be something you get to do very often, so like I said before make it as fun as you can. Constant Reminders Always remind him that he now has a "sissy pussy" or "a cunt" ALWAYS refer to his penis as his "Clit/Clitoris". Refer to him as your bitch and call him by his girl name when you two are alone. Behavior Teach him to behave like a sissy. Sitting when peeing, which by now will be normal due to the chastity device but if you ever see him trying to pee standing up quickly address it. Tell him something like, "What are you doing bitch?" sit down, you need to pee sitting down like the girl you are. Or be creative. Chastity removal By the time you accomplish this stage in your relationship, you will be safe to remove his chastity for most of the time. Locking him up only in special occasions or when you feel is needed. His penis will no longer be the center of his world or the center of his sexuality. By this time your sissy will pay little to no attention to his penis as it will stop being the center of his sexual climax. By this time masturbation is not a threat or is so minimal that you should not even worry about it. By this time the center of his world is you and you are the only one who brings sexual pleasure to him. His brain has been rewired to associate sexual climax with receiving your attention, kissing you, laying in bed with you and you fucking him and him pleasuring you orally. You can feel a great accomplishment , you now have the perfect husband, perfect of course for the purpose of this life-style. You would have created a submissive feminine husband. A true sissy husband to give you unconditional love, respect you, support you, and be there for you. Last note For beginners this is a new way for you two to have fun. You are not turning him to be a 24/7 female or transsexual by any means. Remember life goes on. The changes you make in him although make him more feminine and ready to be transformed, he will still look manly enough to carry out his daily obligations such as work and everything else that goes on in life. This is not to say that some wives don't enjoy this part so much that their sissy husbands find it easier to become more female oriented even in their appearance. Some wives find it more exciting to have their husband's do more permanent changes, like taking some female hormones to develop breast and a more feminine figure, that is all up to you. Remember there is always other elements to take in consideration. Register as a member, it is quick and free registration just to keep the guys out, once you are register you will have access to the blog, gallery and videos areas; bring your hubby to sit next to you and share some of the stories, pictures and videos and ask for his input, what you want to see is how he reacts to what he sees, is it pleasant to him, does it excite him, does it turn him off, does he reject all or some aspects of what he sees, this will give you good feed back so you can customize his program and will save you time by implementing what will work. . Ready for level four? I hope so! Click here to go to Level Four |
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