Answer: First of all, you did the right thing by not removing it the first night he complained, this will allow him to experience a little pain and will trigger his brain to make a connection (erection=pain). Second, you did the right thing by removing it the second night, you don't want him to immediately be discourage to continue with the chastity. My suggestion is that for a week or two you live it one night-on one night-off and increase to two nights-on and one night-off until he can handle a straight week. Once he can achieve a week he will be okay.
Answer: Dear first consider the size of the dildo you are using, most of the time that the size is reason for the painful intercourse. Try to start with a small size and gradually increase. However if you are using a small size dildo as a strap on, I suggest to play more with your fingers, beginning with one and increasing to two and three. Also try not to go all the way in, slow strokes will also help in getting him use to the new feeling.
Answer: My dear, prolong used of chastity without release, that is without milking your man will increase his risk of prostate cancer, this is why it is important to stimulate his prostate using your dildo or strap-on dildo to make his semen flow out. This will keep his prostate in good health and thereby reduce his risk of cancer.
Answer: Dear Rita, it is normal to feel this way some times. We females are not so sexually driven as males are. When you feel like this just talk to your husband and tell him that you are not feeling too well that day and you just want to rest. There is no need for more explanations. If you continue to feel this way the following day, I suggest you push yourself to do something different.
Answer: My dear, I hear you, at the beginning of my journey I was just like you, I didn't like the way it felt, the sensation it gave me, the coldness of it, the hardness of it, I just couldn't enjoy it. After searching about that topic and asking other girls I found that there are some dildos with a more realistic feeling, they cost a lot more money but they are worth it. Although no dildo will ever replace the feeling of a real penis these more realistic ones will definitely help. In my case it helped closing my eyes and not touching it with my hands prior to my husband penetrating me. Also my husband would put it between his legs for a couple of minutes to make it a little warmer. Although there are girls that don't mind a cheaper type of dildo, other girls are much more sensitive and you seem to be one of them. Try buying a cyber skin strap on dildo and give it a try.
Answer: I do know of a few women who include third partners, both male and female. The key is that if she controls sex, then he is at her mercy if he agreed to unconditional surrender she could change his orientation as she wishes.
Answer: It usually begins as a play in the bedroom and it is usually the male who brings up the idea or some elements of it to the female. Although some comes have started it by first having a talk about it, in my experience it is easier for the females if they first test the waters as a role play in the bed room.
Answer: You want to do this because it works and yes he really wants you to treat him like that. It seems to me that you have not read our section on punishment, please do so, there is a lot of information there about this. However the moment you find out that he is enjoying the corporal punishment you have to find alternative ways to punish him.